30+ Reasons it’s great here in TonyTown.

I couldnt help but turn this into a “Tony’s 2 Cents” thing after reading. There’s alot of opinion in here, if your’re offended…shit…I can’t say i apologize for being Me. **grin #1**

This is going into TonyTown as well, so feel free to link, copy, paste, and comment…whatever. 😉

To every guy that’s said, “Sex CAN wait.”
(Usually lying to insure better chance in the near future.)

To every guy that’s said, “You’re beautiful.”
(I wont say it without meaning it, but if I said that, I also guarantee I’ve imagined you naked. My imagination is famous.

To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town (or across the state line) to see her.
(Guilty guy here. I am the king of no-shows…if I show up for you..at all…ever…you better god damn believe I care deeply.)

To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
(I used to do this all the time, fell out of the habit when I found out that the woman I started the habit with was married…dunno lost the luster i guess)

To every guy who has given her flowers just because.
(I am more apt to do this than for the reason above…dunno…me being an asshole again eh?

To every guy that said he would die for her.
(I don’t think this should ever have to be communicated verbally, if you have to say it you’re either a pessimist or waaaay too obsessed. Actions speak far more loudly than words…well unless you have a megaphone…then you’re pretty frackin loud.

To every guy that really would.
(Again goes without having to say it.)

To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
(Which gets super boring after a while. I like art shows, I like theater, and I like ballroom. I loath clubs and concerts, they seem to make me agoraphobic, so if you get to to do these kinds of things…I either really think you’re worth the sacrifice to my nerves, I want to sleep with you …or the band is really good.

To every guy that cried in front of her.
(Oh damn…well if you ever got to see it. Cherish it…it will never happen again….well except when you get me and Matt drunk and talking about Micah…then we turn into blubbering idiots.)

To every guy that she cried in front of.
(No one should ever have to cry alone. I might not have tears left in me but it doesn’t make me stupid. Not being able to know someone sympathizes/empathizes with you can really turn you into a git…trust me on this one.

To every guy that holds hands with her.
There is nothing wrong with this…well…unless you’re only doing it to get in bed with her, then you’re just an idiot. It’s ten times easier just to ask and get some than it is putting on some sort of sensitivity show.

To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
No one should ever be given an insensitive kiss. If you’re gonna do anything…do it with meaning and purpose. No use in not enjoying yourself.

To every guy that hugs her when she’s sad.
I hug everyone. They don’t need to be said…they just have to fit my definition of huggable, which is pretty frackin broad.

To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
Umm…shit…see above.

To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
Dude. Lots of jackets. No regrets. As long as you go into a relationship (including short ones) knowing she’s gonna want some of your cooler clothing, you’ll deal far better with it.

To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
Concern is a big deal. I wont say I haven’t screwed this one up my share, but I know when I am concerned, and if I asked at all that means I was looking out for you.

To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.
One word…STALKER!!! You better find something else to do in that time waiting. Clean your abode. Cook…something..but don’t sit and wait…sheesh.

To every guy that would give his seat up.
There are guys that do and guys that don’t…if only so that they can get the girl to sit in their lap. If you didn’t know about this bad cop/ good cop tactic..now you do.

To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
I love cuddling. Sorry I do. I get the absolute best sleep tangled up with someone…and some of the best moments of my life were tangled up with someone awake…cuddling..;)

To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
If you get into the habit of reassuring her regularly she is going to stop seeing it as the truth and start expecting it as your way if saying “I want [insert whatever here].

To every guy who told his secrets to her.
You better have known her as a confidante and close friend for a long time before. This isn’t about risk, this is about trust and confidence in one another, which should have a foundation..otherwise there will be second thoughts and wishy-washy people deal with second thoughts in very impractical manners.

To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
Do you hear that?
…
That was in fact the world’s smallest violin…playing you a sad sad song. It’s not about proof. It’s about knowing. If she doesnt know then you should frackin tell her!

To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
This is my Achilles heel. I’ve made the mistake a gazzilion times of assuming that she was every bit as enamored as I was. The storybook relationships don’t happen very often…if you don’t go for it 200% there is a good chance it will not work, because doubt is a very VERY worthy adversary.

To every guy that believed in her dreams.
Yeah…I wrote a little poem about that. Check my blog..under Prose somewhere.

To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
Being the foundation for your girlfriend’s success is only achieved by being the foundation for failure prior. Think about that before you credit yourself with other’s accomplishments.

To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
Huh? I like talking about dreams, its a chance for people to share themselves with each other via allusion. Not sure why laughing at someone else is important here. I think this one was an “upset with something that happened to me” entry from one of the people posting on MS.

To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
I do this for everyone, it’s called being considerate. If you’re doing because you’re trying to score points you’re a charlatan and a tard.

To every guy that gave his heart.
Giver, taken back, given, taken by death, given, stabbed & returned, given, returned wrapped in barbs, given, returned in a box labeled “you blew it.” If you don’t give it your all, you’ll not get everything you should out of it.

To every guy who prays that she is happy, even if you are not with her.
Every morning and every night…any less and I would be fooling myself.

…This one bulletin is for you.

Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore…
And because of this, there are not many left out there…
Sorta true, but mainly because its harder to wear our heart on our sleeves.

I guarantee 90% of the men on your page will not repost this cuz they care more about their image.
Because this is MySpace, and people do very little in MySpace except for cry for attention, advertise, and/or prompt everyone for feedback on their own ideas and writing.

If you are a nice guy repost this with “Nice guys STILL finish last.”
I wanted to type…30+ reasons its kickass to be in TonyTown…as a matter of fact **Evil Grin#42**

If you are a girl that thinks every guy should treat a girl this way repost this with: “To Every Guy”
Well…we’ll see how things turn out on reposts wont we?